Here are the questions I come across most! If you're new to this world, I'm sure some of your burning questions will be quelled within.

Where are you located? / Do you offer Incall?

If I'm not at my day job, I am at home and don't wish to share my home address. If you're looking for an incall, please ask, as I do not have a dedicated incall location and will have to set up a hotel reservation in advance with a 90-minute minimum.  A small 20% deposit is required as I only see one client per day, about two days per week, so this space is only for my time with you and I will be out the cost of the hotel if you were to cancel even due to reasons beyond your control. 

How much are your rates?

This one makes me laugh, because via text and email I will just provide a link to my donations page, and refuse to discuss these for legal reasons. Donations, which should be referred to as such are for my time only, and can be found on my site or the ad where you found me. Please don't text asking for confirmation of current donations. Big no, no. If you don't see my ads or my site, then they can be found on my site through a simple google search of my name and the term "DC".

If I text you Today, will you have availability?

Probably Not.


I'm what you call Extremely Low Volume. I never see more than 1 client per day ensuring your time with me is special. I often don't see clients more than 3 days a week, as I travel often and have a demanding course load. I also tend to keep weekends for time with my family and friends, so I may actually have a social life.  Please try to be a proper gentleman, and book in advance.

How do you Prefer I introduce Myself?

Please email me an introduction, but nothing beats a newly filled out Screening Form, freshly placed in my inbox! I have a contact form for general questions, also. But, if you find yourself short on time to fill out my very simple & easy screening form, I prefer that you email. Texts should only be used by gents who have completed my screening form or have been verified in another way.


Note: I do not speak with clients on the phone until you are screened/verified for a meeting, and unknown callers are silenced on my phone so it's pretty useless to call unless we are meeting or I've asked you to do so.

Do you have a menu?

No, Menus are Maestro's and The Dabney, my favorite restaurants.  ;) My services are GFE and all that entails. I also never travel to Greece. 

Following our date, may I leave a review?

Sure, feel free to on my TER or Private delights page! If you don't have anything nice to say, please say nothing at all! :)

Are you the real deal?

I am the REAL DEAL with 100% authentic, unretouched photos, and the best provider in DC offering bespoke & genuine experiences. I find it saddening that gentlemen are sometimes let down by the women they meet, whether by misleading photos or descriptions on websites. Everything contained within my site is a 100% accurate representation of who I am. Put all fears of disappointment aside! I am the exact perfect mix of intelligence and attractiveness that you dream about. It is who I am unconsciously! I guarantee that you will not only have a wonderful time but some say that it could even become habit-forming! 

Do you work for an Agency?

No. I am featured on other ad websites as part of my marketing & paid advertising only. None of these are agencies, and simply allow gentlemen such as yourself to become introduced to women such as me. I am not associated with any agency, though I might own one.

What does the screening process entail?

Screening is a necessary part of our time together. It ensures that we are both safe, and can enjoy our date, worry-free! There are a couple of ways to get verified. This process takes about 24 hours, in most cases, so please allow time between our initial contact via e-mail or text, and the time you wish to meet. I will need one of the following:

1.At least two references from other providers

2. P-411account handle/ID

3.TER account with at least 3 white list references. 

4. A link to your LinkedIn profile AND a photo of your ID.


If you don't have any of the above or cannot produce ID and Employment info, I regret to inform you that I cannot accommodate you. 

Will you be discrete with my information?

Absolutely! I understand how important it is that your rendezvous with me be handled in the most discreet manner possible. I also appreciate your discretion with any personal details I provide about myself. After our initial meeting, and screening, the only info that might possibly remain on my laptop might be your e-mail address or phone number, just for reference for future bookings, unless you have subscribed to my mailing list. All info is password-protected and on an encrypted hard drive. Emails are handled through proton mail, and all traces of your ID & employment info are deleted/destroyed after I return from meeting you safely. I use no backup or cloud services.

What methods of payment do you accept?

Please see my Donations Page.

Can we have a drink together before-hand?

Sure. I tend to enjoy a tall glass with Tito's vodka and an in-season fruit juice. Sancerre or Verve Cliquot are other favorites of mine. Although I would love to enjoy each other's companionship for as long as possible, it will be considered as part of our time together. I am not a "clock-watcher", though I do have a busy life, and would appreciate your consideration in this matter. Thanks in advance!


Will you come to me if I'm fairly close to DC? i.e.: Philly, Virginia Beach, Richmond, Maryland, etc?

I am happy to visit you in your outcall location, even if I don't have a tour scheduled for your area. This often requires a minimum of two or three hours of companionship, and four for further cities, like Boston or Miami. There will be an additional fee for travel, which may be required in advance. I may also request you to purchase a round-trip ticket via Amtrak/United Airlines. I will also fly to you in your faraway city for overnight visits, or full weekends or weeks together. Please inquire for more information.


What will you wear?

I have a phenomenal wardrobe and a variety of threads to fit any occasion. If there is something you request, please let me know. You can be assured that I will be classy and never wear questionable attire... unless you have specifically requested something less formal.

How can I give you your donation?

Cash should be in a greeting card, a book from my wishlist or in an unmarked envelope left on the bathroom counter, dresser, or another place in sight of where will initially meet. Please do not force me to ask for the required donation at the beginning of our meeting. Thank you!


Are the photos of you authentic?

Absolutely! I do not believe in false promotion. They are recent to show you what I look like now, not yesterday or what I hope to attain. No photoshopping, reduction, or finetuning has been done. I am 100% legitimate, and what you see in photos is what will arrive at your door. 

Do you travel?

I am currently enrolled in a program of study, so please take that into account when planning travel with me. However, I do welcome travel engagements. With enough notice, I can fly to meet you anywhere. I have a US Passport and am available for international travel. I am conversant in French, Spanish, and Italian, and I am always looking for an opportunity to improve my language skills and cultural awareness.

Am I grandfathered?

Please check to see if this is the case for you specifically.

Can you send me a photo (for verification)?

I'm sorry that you're thinking I would try to dupe you! I am me, as can be ascertained from my stellar reviews on various sites and my social media presence. As I tell all gentlemen, How am I supposed to be assured that you aren't a cop, a killer, or a crazy psycho? You will see my face upon the first meeting, and I promise you will not be disappointed! I haven't changed this policy in 8 years and haven't found a shortage of suitors.


May I take photos of you?

Not unless we are established friends, and this is something we have discussed. 


Can I fly you to Me?


I have donations that are determined on a case by case basis for anything over 4 hours. However, I do enjoy travel, and always take into account your costs in my trip, plane tickets, and activities planned. My packages are quite reasonable, so if you have an FMTY package in mind, or a trip to the Caribbean & beyond, you should definitely inquire! It might be more affordable than you think!



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